submitting to love

he saw me when i came home early this morning and read my mood, knew not to ask what was wrong, knew i didn’t have words to describe the pain he could see on my face, knew i only wanted a shower and my bed and clean walls around my heart white-washed of gang-tagged graffiti. he came home this evening with flowers and asked if i’d eaten or if i wanted something to eat and when i said i hadn’t eaten and claimed i didn’t want to eat, he made himself dinner, something he knew i’d nibble off his plate, which i did. he didn’t ask me if i wanted a hug; he reached out and held me until i exhaled the breath i’d been holding all day. he didn’t ask me why or how long i cried today after noticing my puffy eyes; he brought me a cold compress and told me to lie on the couch. he asked if i had plans tonight and when i answered no, he told me he was taking me to buy a new dress, even though i have two closets full of dresses, because he knows that a new dress cheers me up, and i need a boost to get out of this hole. from beneath the cold compress covering my eyes, i resisted his offer until he sat at my feet and started rubbing them. he knows that a foot rub melts my defenses. he knows that a foot rub eases me into submission to what’s good for me. he’s good for me. too good sometimes. which stirs up clouds of unworthiness and then a warm wind of gratitude because he loves me. this week i’ve felt at least partly unlovable, and knowing that, he’s loving me extra gently and generously today.

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About angel joy

love is an action verb. i live love in action.
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